Family, My Fall Semester and Just Life!

            This semester I have been through alot with my family. Alot of ups and downs, mostly downs tho. With my aunt in and out of the hospital for multiple health reasons and surgeries; and my uncle giving one of his kidneys to my aunt. I have been on an emotional rollercoaster. Honestly, it has affected my fall semester grades I just know it has. Also, with my work schedule interfering with my school schedule and my family time I just wanted to pull my hair out. 


         My fall semester has been full of fun times and sad moments. I get behind on my work because of my daily things, I have been through hell and back this semester. I have even cried a few times but over time this has taught me to become stronger and work around things. I have learned to set out time for me at night before I go to bed. If I don't my day will be off all types of wrong in the morning. My spring semester will be much better. Hopefully I will be starting a new job with more flexibility with a better atmosphere.  


      On another note, I'm enjoying my transition to natural hair. I have learned more about what works best for me and how to get my hair to look it's best naturally. By summer, I will probably be fully natural. OMG I can't wait for all the new styles I can do with my hair. 

The Two L's

                   
Love and Loyalty

        A lot of women just simply don't understand these two important words. If anything we all as a human race need to learn about is love; that's the first thing. If you don't understand or know how to love. You need to learn as soon as possible. Before you can learn to love anyone else you have to love yourself first. If you don't, who will? Many women mistake love for different things. Some see love as a man showering them with gifts and money. No ma'am Pam, that is called buying your happiness/love and the last time i checked you can't place a price on love or your happiness. Maybe your love has a price but no ma'am, that is not the way to live. I'm telling you right now eventually you will get tired of that lifestyle and want something genuine. We need to understand this vital word. It has many different forms and can be explained in many different ways. Love doesn't love anybody, you have to make your own way and be patient because love will find you. 

       Next up is loyalty. You have to be taught what loyalty is to be able to give show loyalty. This is the symbol for love and loyalty the top of course stands for love then the bottom of it goes into a cross for loyalty. I thought it was very unique. You need to be loyal to someone whether it's God, your spouse or even a very close family member. You need to know who to be loyal too also because being loyal to the wrong person will get you in a place or situation you don't want to be in. Learn how, when, and why to use these words and trust your life will go much smoother.